Dear Friends,
Are you still single, divorced or widowed? If you are married or attached
our Blessings to you. Nevertheless do your single friends a favour
by passing this wonderful message. ICE BREAKERS is a legal government
registered Friendship and Marriage Introduction Agency established
in Malaysia in 1990. Members include Professionals, Engineers, Businessmen,
Managers, Executives, Teachers, Civil Servants, Technicians, Clerks,
Etc. They come from all walks of life, races and all ages.
In becoming a member of our introduction Agency you have opened the
door of opportunity which would widen your choice of friends and eventually
find your compatible partner.
THE OPERATION OF OUR INTRODUCTION AGENCY
How is our service converted into an efficient operation? How can
you get most out of the service we offer? From your first contact
with us, a process of selection has been operating. There are many
reasons for discouraging certain applicants. Often it is a combination
of characteristics in a future mate.
For example, one charming young lady insists upon a strict church
attender for her partner. He must be over 6ft tall, a professional
man with dark wavy hair, should not smoke or drink, and should be
from 30 to 33 yrs. This combination can eliminate so many prospects
that our chance of being of service becomes limited. A single objection
to some denomination, a habit such as smoking, being divorced, etc.,
eliminates only a certain percentage of prospect. But several such
objections to a minimum. It is far wiser to be individually discriminating
when you meet than to practice group discrimination (unseen).
Therefore, if you are accepted as a member, this very fact means
that your chances of benefiting from our services are better than
the average for those in your age group.
Keep in mind, you are not being asked to marry a person to whom
you are introduced, but merely to meet his or her as a friend. Some
people, for various reasons, are not interested in marriage. They
are seeking friendship and companionship of a compatible partner.
YOU AND SUCCESSFUL DATING
Besides being a pleasant way to spend time, it is an opportunity
to let a man and woman find out if they like each other. There are
many little things you can do to make this more likely.
Even your first telephone conversation can help make your date more
successful. You are obviously interested in meeting your new acquaintance
so why not show it? "We always like the people best who are
most interested in us."
You can assume that you are at least going to like each other.....
so don't worry about that.
To the Men : Decide
your plans for the evening in advance, and call her. It's important
to a woman to be dressed correctly. She doesn't want to be a supper
dance in sports clothes.
If you want to ask her how she'd prefer to spend the evening, by
all means do so, but at least offer some suggestions. She doesn't
know what you can afford.
To the Ladies : Don't
be afraid to show some enthusiasm for his plans for your date. You
needn't agree to game of tennis if you have just sprained your wrist,
but there is nothing more deflating to a man's ego than an insipid
"Oh, I suppose so" answer to his suggestions. A smile
in your voice is always worthwhile.
To both of you : Make your first
date a single date. No doubles or parties for this one. You have
a much better chance of getting acquainted without the distractions
of other people along.
Go places where you can talk : have confidence in yourself and enjoy
this new friend.
Go some places where it is quiet and where you can talk perhaps
a social drink or dinner. (Just a hint. You can't find out much
about your new friend while you're both sitting in the dark, watching
a movie).
After the date, the gentleman may wish to phone the lady to let
her know he had an enjoyable time and to express the hope that she
did too. If you feel sure she did, you may ask for another date
at his point. Just remember some people cannot be their best on
a first date and they deserve a second chance.
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